Re: [CR]Two CR members quit the list.....Frances

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Date: Thu, 2 Feb 2006 06:21:19 -0800 (PST)
From: "LDD" <dgdannenbaum@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: [CR]Two CR members quit the list.....Frances
To: hersefan@comcast.net, Joe Starck <josephbstarck@yahoo.com>, classicrendezvous@bikelist.org
In-Reply-To: <020220060333.14957.43E17D94000E0C2E00003A6D2205889116020E000A9C9D0A08@comcast.net>
cc: oroboyz@aol.com

I am certain the poster did not intend to convey that Dale or anyone else is a bad man. The post highlights the limits of the forum--I took it as very tongue in cheek. Jesus did not weep when the two "I am taking my ball and going home" members quit....He did recall one of his favorite Bill Murray movies and say to all from heaven's on High..."Lighten Up Frances!"......

A man of art, having a keen eye for diplomacy....I, for one, applaud Dale's efforts....

hersefan@comcast.net wrote: Everyone navigates these issues in their own way, and the success of this list is attributable to the environment that Dale has created for us. This post indicates that the sender has probably not fully digested the important message that Dale intended to convey.

If Dale is indeed a "bad bad man", then I'm in deep deep trouble as my perceptions of the world need some serious recalibration.

Mike Kone in Boulder CO


-------------- Original message --------------
From: "Joe Starck"


>
>
> --- oroboyz@aol.com wrote:
>
> > Well, there must be some kind of moral to this tale,
> > but both Bryant
> > Bambridge and Greg Parker have quit the CR list.
>
> Well turn your frown upside down, Brown, and see if
> you can hold it there whilst I ask: What are you
> doing putting their privacy in the community
> spotlight? Did they ask you to? If so, my bad. If
> not, you are a bad, bad man, Mr. Brown, and you
> deserve to be turned into a two-headed
> jack-in-the-box. What's the moral in that tale?
> Joe "dash guy" Starck
> Madison, Wisconsin
>
> > It's a shame from my point of view because both guys
> > had a lot to
> > offer.
> >
> > The problem, in my humble opinion, is that folks
> > take stuff too
> > seriously and react and write e-mails that are too
> > aggressive.
> > Certainly there are ways to disagree with points
> > without hurting the
> > other guy?
> >
> > Most of us are more-than-mature folks yet this
> > simple task of gentle
> > communication seems to elude us. Occassionally I get
> > incensed by
> > something I read here on the CR list and dash off an
> > e-mail response,
> > but I have adapted the practice of not sending that
> > mail immediately
> > but instead, saving it for 5-15 minutes later. I
> > review it again and
> > inevitably end up sending a completely different
> > e-mail!
> >
> > So, let's strive for civilty and being considerate
> > of the other person
> > even if at that moment they may not appear to
> > deserve it!
> >
> > Thanks
> > Dale
> >
> >
> > Dale Brown
> > Greensboro, NC
> > http://www.classicrendezvous.com
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